feat(bot): room-server target, tab-carousel UI, per-target independence

Auto-Reply Bot gains a third target (room servers, alongside DM and
channel), new {name}/{hops} reply placeholders, and a DM all/favourites
allow-list. BotScreen is redesigned as a circular tab carousel (Direct /
Channel / Room / Other, same interaction as Nearby Nodes' filter tabs)
instead of one long scrolling list, which also exposed and fixed a
leftover coupling where Channel/Room trigger-replies and their !command
handling secretly depended on the DM tab's Enable/Commands toggles —
each target's Enable and Commands are now fully independent.

- NodePrefs: bot_room_enabled/prefix/trigger/reply, bot_dm_scope,
  bot_commands_ch/bot_commands_room (bot_commands_enabled repurposed as
  DM-only). SCHEMA_SENTINEL 0xC0DE001D -> 0xC0DE001F; sizeof unchanged
  at 2712 (new bytes absorbed existing padding, verified via a
  standalone host compile + offsetof check).
- DataStore: persists all new fields; seeds bot_commands_ch/room from
  the old shared bot_commands_enabled on upgrade so existing
  channel/room command behaviour isn't silently lost.
- MyMeshBot: tryBotReplyRoom/tryBotRoomCommand mirror the channel bot's
  shape but post via sendMessage (room relays to members itself);
  requires an existing login session with that room, same as a manual
  post would. botDmSenderAllowed() gates DM trigger-reply/commands on
  the favourites bit when bot_dm_scope=Fav.
- MsgExpand: {name}/{hops} as optional trailing params (default
  nullptr/-1, no existing caller affected) — deliberately not exposed
  on the general compose keyboard, only on bot Reply fields.
- QuickMsgScreen/UITask: room-target picker (mirrors the channel
  picker), routing through the existing room-login prompt when there's
  no saved password yet.
- BotScreen: tab carousel (LEFT/RIGHT switches tabs, UP/DOWN moves
  rows, Enter is now the only way to change a value); Enable split out
  of Channel/Room's combo row; Quiet Hours gained a stepper sub-mode;
  Commands moved from a shared toggle into each tab.
- docs/tools_screen.md updated for the new tab layout and behaviour.

Not build-verified — no PlatformIO toolchain in this environment.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

examples/companion_radio/ui-new/UITask.h

@@ -223,6 +223,8 @@ public:
   void shareToMessage(const char* text);   // open Messages pre-loaded to share `text`
   void quickShareMyLocation();             // Home Map Hold-Enter: one-shot position share
   void pickLocShareTarget();               // open Messages to choose the live-share target
+  void pickBotChannelTarget();             // open Messages to choose the auto-reply bot's channel
+  void pickBotRoomTarget();                // open Messages to choose the auto-reply bot's room
   int  getRecentDMContacts(uint8_t out[][NodePrefs::FAVOURITE_PREFIX_LEN], int max) const;
   void gotoToolsScreen();
   void gotoRingtoneEditor(int slot = 0);